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Soul-Winning For Jesus: Speak The Truth In Love — Rob Albright

On a church marquee the exclusive nature of Jesus was announced by quoting John 14:6. “Jesus said to him, ‘I am the way, and the truth, and the life; no man comes to the Father but through Me.’” It only took a couple of days until the church answering machine picked up a call from a man down the street who said he was offended by the message on the sign out front. The message said Jesus was the only way to salvation. Peter said long ago, “Jesus Christ, the Nazarene…whom God raised from the dead…there is salvation in no one else; for there is no other name under heaven that has been given among men by which we must be saved” (Acts 4:10-12). I guess the caller did not want to hear the truth.

It seems more and more people are questioning the Bible and the truth about Jesus. Many just ignore Him and His words. But, in spite of the fact that so many are rejecting Jesus and His words, “speaking the truth in love” (Eph. 4:15) should be a vital concern to every Christian.

If we are concerned about others and their spiritual well-being, then we speak the truth in love. We show genuine love by speaking the truth. Both love and truth go together. Yes, we can speak the truth, but without a humble concern for others we can become harsh and tactless.

From Ephesians 4:15, we see two things that make a definite impact on others. Both what we say and how we say it are important. Paul warned the Ephesians about being tossed here and there by every new teaching that comes along and to be careful about every new trick designed to deceive them and get them off track (Eph. 4:14).

The first word is truth. We live in a world in which some people are just concerned with what they think or feel. Absolute right, wrong, and truth have become politically incorrect. It is sad that many do not have a love for truth and salvation (2 Thess. 2:10b). Yet, of course there are still “truth seekers.” Showing genuine love and concern by being gentle and patient will open many doors of opportunity to speak the truth. God’s Word is the truth that must be spoken (John 17:17). There is nothing more loving than teaching others about salvation in Jesus that frees us from sin (John 8:31-32). Charles Pugh, in his book “Doctrine and The Do In It” (2004, p..31-32) wrote: “The theme of the Bible is the redemption of man to the glory of God through Jesus Christ. The purpose of the Bible is salvation. Paul wrote, “The Holy Scriptures…are able to make you wise for salvation through faith which is in Christ Jesus” (2 Timothy 3:15).” You cannot have real love without the truth of God’s Word. Truth makes a strong Christian. Truth makes a strong church. Willing to speak the truth shows love.

The next word is love. Love will speak the truth in a kind manner because “love is patient, love is kind and is not jealous: love does not brag and is not arrogant” (1 Cor. 13:4). You see, in order for truth to be received, the manner in which it is delivered is important too. In Ephesians 4:15 Paul gives us the “how” in speaking the truth. A humble and gentle spirit in our communication of truth keeps relationships alive. 1 Peter 3:15 says, “But sanctify Christ as Lord in your hearts, always being ready to make a defense to everyone who asks you to give an account for the hope that is in you, yet with gentleness and reverence.”

I might say this too. There are times when we demonstrate love by our silence. Charles Pugh (Doctrine and The Do In It, 2004, p.89-90) makes this statement: “…I have wondered what might happen if, in the church, when we were about to say something that was not going to be good for edification (cf.Eph.4:28), we would tell ourselves, “Don’t say it!” Biblical wisdom reveals that “there is a time to keep silence, and a time to speak” (Eccl.3:7). It takes much thought and prayer to learn to discipline oneself to “don’t say it.”

“We love because He first loved us” (1 John 4:19). Our love for the others for whom Jesus died is certainly demonstrated by our “speaking the truth in love” and at other times by our silence.

Rob serves as a member of the board of directors of the Carolina Messenger.

In The Front Door, Out The Back — Rob Albright

Life in a small rural area in Ohio was very different from the big city life in Nashville, Tennessee. I finished serving in the U.S. Navy and started college. My wife and I had a decision to make on which congregation we were going to attend. In Nashville, you have many more from which to choose.

We both were “raised in the church,” so there was no doubt we were going to become a part of some church family. We believed that if the church was important enough for Jesus to die (Eph. 5:25), then it should be a priority for us too. Yet Nashville was so different, with countless congregations from which to choose. The decision was made but it was not because it had a basketball team or because it was so large. We wanted to be in a congregation where we could serve and grow as a young couple starting a new life together. It was not a perfect place but the leaders, preacher and other members treated us like we had been there a long time. They genuinely cared about us and helped us learn and grow.

During the time we were there, we noticed something we had not experienced before. A number of people would show up, but after a few weeks they seemed to disappear. We found out that most were “church hopping” — going from one congregation to another every few weeks. Most did not want to be known, or involved, or accept any responsibilities.

Unfortunately, I have seen the same attitude throughout more than forty years of preaching. I believe this lack of commitment is one reason why some members stay disconnected and move from one congregation to another. This is a completely different attitude than that possessed by Paul. When Paul came to Jerusalem he wanted to be a part of that church (Acts 9:26). Everywhere he traveled he became an integral part of the congregation there. He found relationships that were mutually beneficial for spiritual growth. Members who invest their time, money, energy, and talent in working with a local church desire to serve God and one another; they don’t forsake being together (Heb. 10:24-25). The reason some come in the front door and leave through the back door is because they do not feel attached nor desire to serve under the elders of the church (Heb. 13:17).

Besides a lack of commitment, another reason some leave is because they have not found unity. It is important to live and work together in unity in the church. Unity is so important. It is what Jesus prayed for before He was hung on the cross (John 17). Sometimes this working together in a unified manner is like being on a ball team. We all have different strengths and weaknesses, so it’s important to “play our position” to the best of our ability and respect the work others are doing. Unity begins with a respect for the leaders. Know them, respect them and follow their lead (1 Thess. 5:12-13). Some act when immaturely when a decision is made by the leadership which was not what they wanted. Instead of respecting leaders and promoting unity, they look to another place. Others come in the front door and leave out the back because of personal problems. It could be a health issue or a financial problem. It may be discouragement due to not finding the support they need. Former North Carolina State basketball coach Jim Valvano used to say, “Never give up,” when facing problems. No one can avoid problems, but Christians have God’s promises. Nothing can separate us from the love of God (Rom. 8:31-39). We have the promise that we will not be tempted beyond our ability to cope (1 Cor. 10:13). The Bible exhorts us to “continue in the faith” (Acts 14:22), “be steadfast” (1 Cor. 15:58), and “run with endurance” (Heb. 12:1). As Christians, we will suffer and face disappointments, fear and loneliness. Yet others in the church are there to encourage and comfort us (1 Thess. 4:18; 2 Thess. 1:3-4).

Some want to run out the back door when they sin. Yet we all sin (Rom. 3:23). James reminds us to confess our sins to each other (Jas. 5:16), not to be shamed or judged but to be taught and encouraged. This confession also helps all of us recognize our own vulnerability and sins. It is not a time to quit, but a time to seek God’s forgiveness (Acts 8:22; 1 John 1:9) and keep on living the life God wants us to lead.

The Lord’s church is a family. We are brothers and sisters in Christ. Our actions and speech must be prompted by familial love (1 John 4:7). We are not just on the job together at a plant or serving others in a social club. There must be a genuine bond of love and respect from every heart bowing to the will of God.

In the church, no lock is needed to bar the back door. Once inside, people will see and know they are in the right place. 

Rob serves as a member of the board of directors of the Carolina Messenger.


Encouraging Our Youth To Faithfulness — Rob Albright

Growing up in “small town USA” is something I have always cherished. When you get to my age, you start remembering “they way it used to be” often. I still keep in contact with some of the people I grew up with. It is so good to know that most of our youth group is still faithful, involved, and some are leaders in the Lord’s church today. One friend recently retired after 46 years as church secretary and she is married to an elder. Her sister is married to an elder in another congregation. There are other such examples of young people who remained faithful over the years.

Of course, not all young people stay in the church. Some drop out and lead a life of unfaithfulness to God. So, why do some stay faithful to God and others leave the faith? That is a good question to think about.

To be faithful means to be “steadfast, resolute, trustworthy.” A servant of the Lord is to be faithful (1 Cor. 4:2). A faithful person will be blessed (Prov. 28:20a). So what is it that can help keep our youth faithful?

Let’s start out by recognizing that we need God in any successful endeavor. To begin following Him when we are young (Eccl. 12:1) is a blessing. When we are young and decide to follow Jesus, we are saying “Yes” to all that is good and right. The first two commandments in Exodus 20 deal with our attitude toward God: “I am the Lord your God….you shall have no other gods before me.” You simply cannot live the Christian life without making God top priority. Faithfulness and submission to God should be our goal.

With that goal comes two acknowledgments. First, we must accept the fact that we will give up our old life, a life different from the world’s standards. There will be constant temptations to become like the world rather than being different from many of our friends. Paul said, “Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God” (Rom. 12:2).

I am afraid many of those who become unfaithful started out with belief and baptism and initial encouragement , but did not know how to be transformed by renewing their minds. A transformation is an obvious change. Change starts with the mind — a decision and a commitment and a plan. The plan is found in the Bible. It includes training your actions, words, relationships, attitudes and goals. Every Christian must be a serious Bible student to continually change and become more like Jesus. John writes, “Do not love the world or the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him” (1 John 2:15b).

Secondly, with the goal of faithfulness in mind, we are reminded of John 17:14-15 where Jesus asked God to not take the disciples out of the world, but protect them while in it. We must realize the responsibility of being an influence for good while we are in the world. We are responsible for being the salt of the earth and the light of the world (Matt. 5:13-16). It’s incredible how actions, words, and attitudes show others who we are. Yes, we live in the world but we cannot live like the world.

We cannot ignore these facts. Christians (young and old) belong to Jesus and that means we have adopted a different way of life. Young people are setting patterns for life. They are under the strongest peer pressure of any of us. They are a mixture of excitement and vulnerability, so developing strong relationships with Christian adults is vital. Yet, no matter where we are and what we do, we influence others. Each decision we make influences on someone. There are times when it is difficult to know the right thing to do. A number of years ago these questions were given to me. They may help others to decide what’s the right thing to do:

  • Can it be done to the glory of God? (1 Cor. 10:31)
  • Is it helpful? (1 Cor. 6:12)
  • Will it cause someone else to stumble? (1 Cor. 8:7-13)
  • Would Jesus do it? (1 Pet. 2:21-22)
  • Will it make me a better Christian? (1 Pet. 2:1-2)
  • Will it help lead others to Christ? (2 Cor. 5:17)
  • When Jesus returns, would I like to be found doing this? (1 John 2:28)

We are also responsible for sharing the gospel with others. Young people search for their own identity and for meaning in life. It takes boldness, but young Christians have open doors among their friends. Peers will have questions and they need to be prepared to explain their faith in the Bible, in Jesus, and the church.

So, with all the challenges we have by living in this world, do we have any hope of being successful in influencing our youth to faithfulness? Howard W. Norton in his article “Hope For The Family,” published in the Spring 2002 issue of Church And Family, gives these three reasons for hope:

  1. Because God made human beings with the capacity to change their lives. “Even though Americans have radically devalued marriage and the family since 1960, they have the power to turn things around and change their families for the better.”
  2. Because Jesus enables defeated human beings to be born again and restart life with a clean slate.  “Neither personal or family failure is hopeless if people are willing to turn to Christ for forgiveness and renewal.”
  3. Because the church is a spiritual community that places high value on the home and cultivates this kind of thinking.  “In the church people are most likely to receive a steady flow of exhortation, instruction, and support.”

What contributes to our youth remaining faithful?  Two important factors:

  1. The Home. Parents are responsible for modeling and teaching discipline and devotion to their children. In all areas of their lives – especially their spiritual growth – discipline and devotion are vital. There is nothing that can take the place of having godly parents in the home. Having living examples of faithfulness day in and day out during the early years was a great blessing for my sister and brother and I. We saw parents that loved each other and worked together to have a Christian home. They encouraged each other and served each other.  No parent is sinless but they can be faithful. Youth have plenty other influences (tv, peers, etc) but what is often missing is that godly parental influence. In the home there should be no doubt that God and His Word are the centerpiece of home life. Of course, in the home, youth learn great lessons that help in their occupation and family life as well as their spiritual growth.  Scripture says, “Hear, my son, your father’s instruction and do not forsake your mother’s teaching” (Prov. 1:8).  Parents must stand on God’s Word. They must teach their children and be involved in their spiritual growth However, not everyone is blessed with a family that believes, commits, and encourages the Christian lifestyle, Bible study, and prayer. Some families even discourage or make fun of their children’s choice to become a Christian. The church must be aware and actively involved in the growth of these young Christians.
  1. The Church. The spiritual family also has responsibilities to its members. Hebrews 3:12 teaches us to “exhort one another daily.” We must be involved in each other’s lives and be able to turn to one another for strength to remain faithful. Our youth must be a part of this. Building relationships across generations is important. Some may feel we have nothing in common, but we do — Jesus and our commitment to Him.  Young Christians in the church also encourage, teach, and influence each other by spending study and social activity times together. They can experience a “safe” place to interact and ask questions. These times are also opportunities to introduce their friends to the church family. Hebrews 5:12-14 reminds the church to teach young Christians with the “milk” and to continue teaching everyone toward maturity in God’s Word.

You may note that in both the home and the church, adults and youth are together.  In both places, mentoring our youth in faithfulness is vitally important.

Rob has been preaching for many years, and has also served as a shepherd of the church.  He serves on the board of directors for the Carolina Messenger.